All were honest expressions of my current sexuality.I've discovered that there are a few different categories that the men who are interested in me tend to fall into, based both on those who I have hooked up with and the many others I have chatted with on the couple of different dating websites I belong to.
But don't do as one man did and send me a message out of the blue on Plenty of Fish to tell me that my mere presence there is disgusting and that I shouldn't subject "normal" people to the affront of having to see my picture on that site. During the course of this year, I have had a lot of sex with a lot of different partners.
I'm not just slightly chubby and complaining about those last 15 pounds.
I'm rather short and weigh almost precisely 300 lbs. Unless you think such things are mutually exclusive, I would describe myself as reasonably pretty, in a natural, low-maintenance, naughty librarian kind of way. I am certainly not everyone's cup of tea, and I'm not at all offended by that fact.
I dubbed 2013 my "year of fucking recreationally" and set out to find some hot, sweaty, messy, dirty, uncomplicated fun with like-minded friends. Here are some things that I learned about what it's really like to seek casual sex as a forty year old fat chick.
Now, I should note that when I tell you I'm fat, I really mean it.
One such friend tells me that he long ago stopped approaching women he was attracted to in bars.